I am one who loves humor. Without it the world would be a dreadful place. I consume it and use it as I can. I respect people with quick wit and a humility that allows them to not be afraid to look a little foolish at times. But I also know that there is a time and a place for everything. Sometimes, lightness is not what a situation calls for. When your friend is in sorrow and pain, you can be a light presence, but don't make light of the circumstances. You can bring a sense of levity, but don't call for it from the heavy-hearted. When someone loses a loved one, don't point out "the bright side"... even when there is one, unless they draw attention to it first. One of the best things you can do as a friend for someone who is grieving is to grieve with them. Honor their loss with your tears too.
Readings: Jeremiah 31:27-32:44; 1 Timothy 3:1-16; Psalm 88:1-18; Proverbs 25:20-22
